Be a Business Hoe—Your Guide to Financial Freedom & Unapologetic Success
Yep, you read that right. It’s time to be a business hoe. And no, I don’t mean standing on a street corner braving the elements—I mean never putting all your financial security in one person’s hands again.
This gem of advice came straight from my therapist during a particularly messy chapter of my life, and let me tell you—it changed everything.
The Employee Mindset Trap
I have a bad habit—one my therapist called out in the most brutal, necessary way possible.
I’m a sucker for professional monogamy. Not in a “stay loyal to your career goals” kind of way, but in a “put all my eggs in one basket, ignore my other revenue streams, and pretend everything’s fine” way. Sound familiar?
I used to start with beautifully diverse income streams, but the moment one opportunity seemed promising—boom—I’d go all in, ignoring everything else. Next thing you know, I was stuck in Employee PTSD mode, bending over backward for one client like I was on their payroll. (Spoiler: I wasn’t.)
The Invoice That Woke Me Up
One month, after working over 40 hours a week for a single client while juggling my child’s medical appointments, I sent my invoice as usual.
Silence.
No payment. Calls dodged. Emails ignored.
DAYS stretched into WEEKS. And since I’d put all my time into this one client, that invoice? That was all of my income.
Cue the panic. Cue the emergency therapy session. And that’s when my therapist hit me with it:
“Be a hoe. Be a BUSINESS hoe.”
She wasn’t telling me to change careers (bless her heart). She was telling me to diversify—to stop treating one client like my financial soulmate and start spreading my opportunities far and wide.
Flipping the Script (Or as Rio from Good Girls would say, "You gotta flip your game.")
That moment lit a fire under me. I started asking myself the questions I’d been avoiding:
What do I actually want to do?
Who do I want to work with?
Why was I still running my business like I had a boss?
I realized I’d been following my old employee playbook:
Get a job.
Be awesome at it.
Burn myself out making someone else rich.
Ignore my passions like the right ignoring logic.
No more. I flipped my game. I niched the f*ck down and went all in on helping women build spiritual businesses the right way. Not just the dreamy, creative parts—but the legal, financial, and strategic pieces that keep their businesses safe from multimillion-dollar disasters. (Yes, I’ve cleaned up those messes, too.)
Diversification is the Name of the Game
Being a business hoe isn’t just a mindset—it’s a strategy.
After my therapist’s wake-up call, I rebuilt my income streams. My main squeeze? Slight Look—helping spiritual entrepreneurs build legit businesses. My side flings? Consulting on HR nightmares, teaching compliance, and creating income streams that serve me, not stress me.
Here’s what I’ve learned:
Diversification isn’t just about money—it’s about freedom.
It’s about never being so dependent on one client, job, or platform that their failure becomes your failure.
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Hoe Life 101: Start With the Basics
Being a business hoe doesn’t mean running yourself into the ground. It means:
Spreading your income sources wide so one setback doesn’t take you out.
Creating a business structure that protects you, not just your clients.
Saying hell no to financial monogamy and hell yes to stability and freedom.
I learned the hard way so you don’t have to.
Now go build the business you deserve.
The power’s in your hands—go claim it.